This month has not been easy and for this reason I’ve decided to post twice a month this year. My difficulties and obligations have made it more challenging to find the time and patience to write these posts. It once was a way to apply DBT skills to every day situations since I graduated from my therapist, but it has become something I forget about and feel bad about not fulfilling.
I can’t stop crying today. I’m afraid. I feel like everything I worked so hard for is crumbling before me. I haven’t gotten to where I want to be and I’m afraid I never will. I’m scared of losing the people I care about. I’m scared that I’m unlovable. I’m trying my best to love myself more than anyone else can. I’m upset that I was given this lot in life, these fears because of the way I was treated by my parents, the way I was raised. My mother raised me to be a strong woman, but I’m afraid I’m failing her. I’m in the most vulnerable state I have ever been in and I don’t know how to reign it in.
My mother taught me how to take care of myself, how to be strong but she didn’t teach me how to ask for help, when to realize I couldn’t do it alone. She didn’t prepare me for the heartache, the pain that comes with being human but she warned me of what I would experience when I trusted the wrong people. Unfortunately, that came to fruition and I’ve grown from the experience. I’m at a crossroads yet again.
I’m starting to feel like a burden again. I want to pull away, to hide from the world but I don’t know what to do with these feelings. I keep opening up more and more, my wounds continue to bleed but my hope is that it’ll cease, my wounds will heal and I’ll be stronger. I’m waiting for the strength to kick in because I’m at the lowest point I’ve been in in years, which is nothing compared to how low I’ve been before. I think the love and compassion I feel towards myself is keeping me afloat.
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