I should be used to people surprising me. I should be used to people doing things I don’t always expect, but alas I was caught off guard yet again. My significant other and I announced good news to our family and friends. We received an outpouring of support. It took us a week to figure out how to break the news not only because we didn’t know how they’d react but also because we both worked and didn’t have an opportunity to share the news face to face earlier with those who mattered most to us due to work.
I have learned over the years to be careful, cautious and reserved. You want people to be in your corner. You want people to support you and show you unconditional love but that doesn’t always happen. The previous time I was in a similar situation I was so blinded by happiness that I couldn’t see the ways in which my ex was hurting me by hiding the truth from me and increasing the distance between us.
I’m used to people being happy for me when it comes to my achievements. I’m used to people applauding me for excelling in school and most things I try, but not everything since I do have some weaknesses that I try to work on every now and then. I’m not used to people being happy about my personal life, not when it comes to relationships and the ways they evolve.
I’ve learned so much about people this weekend. I feel so lucky to have been showered with love. I need to keep it into perspective because it’s not about approval but doing what’s best for me and my partner. I feel a little overwhelmed by the support but will keep it in perspective.
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