It took some time to figure out what to write this week and I wonder if it’s because this blog has fulfilled its purpose. I started this blog almost two years ago as a way to share what I was learning in DBT. It was a way to put into context the various skills and a way to make those skills make sense to my day to day.
The various times I’ve learned about it made me feel like it was some distant thing I would never get the hang of. I was exposed to DBT around 8 or 9 years ago when I was having a hard time regulating my emotions. I learned about it in quick bursts because I was introduced to DBT in an intense outpatient setting after being releasing from an inpatient program that helped stabilize me enough to function. I didn’t remain in either place very long (because that’s how they’re set up) and as a result as soon as I left those places, the skills stayed there.
I didn’t realize that those skills were the very thing I needed to live without many symptoms (most are gone but there are some that pop up now and then) and enjoy my life until much later. It took years to get an accurate diagnosis and it was a relief when it finally did. I think this is why it was so important to get the skills ingrained in my day to day living by increasing my mindfulness surrounding them.
It has been helpful to keep myself busy with two jobs, volunteer work and nourishing some good relationships in my life. The skills helped me figure out how to address problems more easily regardless of the type of problem they are. I’m more effective and since this is happening, I have an easier time managing my emotions. I can hardly believe there was a time that I struggled so much, but I’m reminded of the struggle when I contemplate old journal entries, poems and other such writings.
I’m so grateful that DBT came into my life. It made a world of difference.
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