There are some people who can’t live without drama in their lives. Recently, I have had the misfortune of being graced by the presence of two individuals who are like this. I forgot how draining they can be, but was quickly reminded as one of them attempted to sucker punch me in the gut with their raw, unfiltered emotional roller coaster. Luckily, a family member was kind enough to warn me about one occurrence and I was able to avoid being sucked into it. I wasn’t able to avoid the second person, but I did stop myself from being sucked in, even though I didn’t see their drama coming.
I try to put myself in people’s shoes and remember the times I got involved with drama. The main examples that come to mind as my high school years. I kept to myself, but that didn’t stop me from listening to gossip. It didn’t stop me from asking questions and inevitability I realized how toxic it was to indulge gossip. In the moment you judge the person and you fool yourself into thinking you’re better than them because you would never get caught in the situation that person is in.
I got pregnant a few years into my college career. This situation changed my perspective on drama, gossip and judging others forever. I’m much more considerate now than I once was, I don’t compare myself to others in a way that put them down and I think it’s due to experience, growth and maturity. My hope is that the people feeding off the chaos that drama brings, the heightened emotions they experience through it all realize that there’s more to life than drama. Life is so multifaceted and beautiful. It’s so important to be kind to others because you never know when you’ll need them and they’ll need you.
Love people even when they make mistakes. That’s what I’m trying to do. I’m trying to understand where these people who enjoy drama in their lives are coming from, but I’m not letting their tendencies define how I feel about life and how they perceive me. We all have our specific journey in life and I’m not going to stop someone from experiencing theirs, no matter how much I don’t agree with it.
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